puppies are great, especially since they love and stick around unconditionally...and kids get distracted by them too, and not so aware of a missing parent.
Tattoos? I have objections to them after being a L for a burn unit. Seems...harmful to perfect skin, super hard to remove well, and just too permanent to me?
(Also reeks of cliched MLC behavior, but maybe I'm a tad sensitive there...)
why not use henna for a temporary thing? Just a thought.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
the tattooed puppy has the advantage of being original...here on DB, we like to thing we LBSers are above MLC cliches...
(but we are allowed!)
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Tattoos? I have objections to them after being a L for a burn unit. Seems...harmful to perfect skin, super hard to remove well, and just too permanent to me?
(Also reeks of cliched MLC behavior, but maybe I'm a tad sensitive there...)
why not use henna for a temporary thing? Just a thought.
Interesting 25. I was thinking of getting a tattoo myself. I've always wanted a chakram (Xena's round killing thing) on my neck but feared scarring and my wife's disapproval. Guess I should wait on it now huh?
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
One other thought....isn't this a bit of a game??? Putting a happy face on when you are miserable. Not talking when it's really what you want to do. Not asking my W where she was last night even though it eats away at me. No longer challenging W on her EA even though it has consumed my thoughts for 8 months....
I get and appreciate the process on it's merits. I have bought into it or else I wouldn't be here. I just wonder if it can be tailored to fit individual situations in a more expeditious manner........maybe it can't.
I need to let my W wear her BGP's.
It can definitely FEEL like a game, when what you need to do is act counter to the way you always act, or want to do. What you are really doing is TRAINING yourself.
When I was training to run, the last thing I wanted to do was run. The very last thing. But if I want to be a runner, I have to actually run.
