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OMG Edit edit edit!!! I have my real name in there, I'm so sorry Jack!!!

I did a copy and paste. Hopefully my whole post won't be lost.

Grit -
I am sorry for coming here late - and I am TRULY sorry for the heartache that once again appears for you on this journey.
You have been a bright light for many of us here. Hopefully - your incredible ability to reach out and care for others, your genuine kindness and thoughtfulness, will become the assets you can use to help yourself.
Acceptance is a very long journey. You have showed her such patience - please show yourself the same. Just go easy on yourself.
IB

Yes this definitely was me too.



This is exactly what I have achieved. Thank you for writing this to me.

It speaks for me right now.

Thanks Irish.Seeking. Antonia.

We all have been through tough times together and thank you all for your thoughts and wishes.

Sweetie, I am thinking of you.

I know that you are feeling all sorts of things right now.

I wanted you to tell you something.

I know you have carefully guarded that peace you have felt.

Now, this next part, is where you get to true peace. The kind that engulfs you.

It comes from really letting go. Not because of what she wrote, not because you do not care.

That doesnt mean you cannot have her in your life if you choose to. It doesnt mean that it rules out anything in the future that might involve her.

It comes from loving her that much. Loving her enough to respect where she is right now, hearing her words and letting her go with love.

She might still come out the other side. She is not there now.

This is the next part of your journey, my friend.

Continue on.

^^^^^^^
What she wrote. I have started and abandoned at least three posts to you. B got it right, as always.

The next part begins.

Thank you Brook and Beatrice.

Time for new thread.

Jack can you lock this one please.