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Had a very nice weekend with husband. At times did not know what to do, second guessing myself. Saturday morning I was getting ready to go to farmers market and husband asked if he could go. Did that and then went shopping for hunting supplies for husbands upcoming trip. Later that evening he had to pick up some items and asked if I wanted to go. We went for a walk on Sunday evening. Watched movies together. Had friends over on Monday for BBQ.

Him sleeping in other room is hard. Each night when we go to bed I have gotten a kiss and hug and each night they have been getting more intense. So I will just take it slowly it is improving.

Had our serious talk on Sunday night. Talked about having a good time together this weekend. And how we need to keep the communication between us open. Told him that in the past I was hurting and was not even seeing how he was hurting and how I need to make sure that I do not just focus on myself. He says that he did the same. We both feel that we are communicating better. Talked about the OW he said that he is not talking to her as much and that he told her that he was moving home. He said that she was glad. Not sure about that but since she lives over 1000 miles away and most of their relationship has been on phone or computer I will have to move on. I did ask him if he was going to be talking to her, if he would do it while I was there. He said that he would feel uncomfortable. I really do not want him to talk to her at all. So I will work on myself and our marriage so that he will not need or want to.

Husband asked what I wanted for my birthday he will be gone hunting on that day. That is fine my sister is coming down so we can celebrate our birthdays together so I will have a good time. I hope that sometime in the near future that we will be able to celebrate our 30th anniversary that was on August 1.

Going to start the KLA today and keep working on positive changes in our marriage.