KD......I just wanted to stop by your thread as I see that you have not posted for awhile.
I'm sorry that Lawering and your anniversay is happening all on the same day.
I wanted u to know that i have seen tremedous growth from you over the last few months.. From True grits comment ( I think it was true grits ) about you being all over the place acting like Forest gumps ( from the movie...no the FG on here ) ping pong ball on crack...Im sorry but that really made me laugh.
to the Rock you have become today........for many many people on this site
HAHAHA!!! Thanks sunny! I appreciate it... I still have to watch "Forest Gump - the movie".
Yeah, I was emotionally all over the place. I'm almost afraid to look back at my posts!
The KD that's showing now is the KD (plus1) I was when I met and married my W.
It's just sad the choices she's made and the path she continues to follow. But... it's her path...
On the L date, I almost feel its poetic, in a way.
I have my threads in "Seperated" and "Infidelity" as well, so I post here mainly when I need more instant gratification...
Thank you for noticing my change and I thank all who feel I provide a value in my contributions here. In my second life I would have either been an F1 driver or a therapist... lol...
Maybe not too late for either... or both!
And GM, thanks man! You're a good man and you'll come out of this in one piece, a better man and father and H... regardless of the M outcome!
I just got off the phone with my L's office and have an appointment set up for, ironically, Aug. 11... my ten year anniversary...
I have to be honest that I'm somewhat driven by anger right now, but nothing... irrational... a bit of an emotional leveler, it seems... enough to prod me into action on this...
Fear gets us stuck... there is no doubt about it... and we are capable of doing almost anything to deny that fear... or... maybe protect it...
All I can say is, do whatever you can to know what fear is keeping you stuck and then whatever you can to break through that fear... however that looks for you... and then ACT...
DO SOMETHING to drive past the fear and MOVE IN A POSITIVE DIRECTION
COURAGE is a core value to be embraced...
HONESTY to yourself... without it, you will never have clarity...
TRUST in yourself... trust yourself capable... we all are capable... mistakes will happen... trust in yourself to choose the right resources... people... who you can enlist to accomplish your honest, clear goal...
INTEGRITY... our moral compass, as it were... it may not look the same as someone else' integrity... but have no doubt that if you operate out of your personal integrity, your ground and balance is gone...
RESPONSIBILITY... at the very least, be and act responsible to yourself... hold yourself accountable for both the positive AND the negative consequences of your past and your future...
COMPASSION... absolute and true and complete LOVE and EMPATHY... not just of others... but of yourself...
Know your path, it is unique for you. Advice on our own destiny is only valuable to act on when it is in line with our core values and goals. And be open to feedback... without it, we can never know that we need to course correct...
No... the anger is there and the fear is still there... but I move forward with resolve... and clarity... and... hope... or rather... faith...
Very nicely stated. From the beginning till now I see another KM. You are a good man.
You have been giving fantastic advice. You patience is also outstanding.
Thanks for your contribution to the board.
Be well KD.
Hey, don't make it like he's not coming back.
KD,
you ARE sticking around aren't you? I'm not aware of being consulted or asked to vote about the possibility of you leaving and I'm pretty sure there are rules to that effect somewhere...on my desk...
too valuable to leave!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
