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I just like connecting the dots... lol...

hmmmm... maybe if we get mgm in here, we can just say the heck with TSN and have our own team... and cheerleaders to boot...

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KD, I'm glad you got a kick out of it. smile

I'm sure Telemark will still host a party on Saturdays for NCAA football and Sundays for NFL with his upgraded TV and sound system. wink


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Absolutely. Just bring food or beer.


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Not to look a gift horse in the mouth or anything, but you *do* have Sunday Ticket, right TM? And in October, a little hockey (I'm guessing KD will back me up on that:)?

I've got an awesome tomatillo salsa recipe, so someone just needs to bring the chips.


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I'll bring the chips and come wearing my Bengals jersey laugh


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Bengals???? Ahhh there a rivalry brewing now. I’ll have to represent the Browns. Now if TM is a Steelers fan…….Did someone say Hockey??? Couple of six pack of Commodore Perry, short trip down I80 count me in.


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I'm goin' with the 49ers, but that's what I always do... cool

And come hockey, Canadians... any day of the year... smile

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At what point did I lose control here? grin

Anyway...

It looks like W is starting to see the hole she has dug for herself. Her plan was to be out by the end of this weekend. Other than moving a few boxes of books she has made no progress in getting her things out. She has been warm, friendly and slightly affectionate, and then seems very sad and tired. SS21 has been a real handful; I'm sure he senses a disturbance in The Force and will not adapt well to this change.

I have been patient and understanding. I will not help her move, but I did tell her she could get her things out at her own pace. I do not want to see her in pain or miserable.


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Originally Posted By: Telemark
At what point did I lose control here? grin


I think at the point the thread hijackers started coming laugh

Originally Posted By: Telemark

SS21 has been a real handful; I'm sure he senses a disturbance in The Force and will not adapt well to this change.

This is really the sad part in all this. SS21 is paying a mighty big price here.

Originally Posted By: Telemark

I have been patient and understanding. I will not help her move, but I did tell her she could get her things out at her own pace. I do not want to see her in pain or miserable.

I know this is tough, man. My prayers and thoughts are with you. You have to do what's right for you. It sounds like it's a good thing you will be in upstate NY this weekend.


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those darned topic hijackers... grin

TM, I think you might be right... she's starting to "get it"... someone who has packed boxes and wants out doesn't... linger at the threshold...

I'm just concerned that you might give her a little TOO MUCH lee on moving things out...

Not a time frame, but maybe a trigger... what would need to happen to convince you that she needed to go?

That she gets it on with an OM? That she has every meal at your house? That she never uses the washroom facilities in her new place because she has moved back into yours...?

Just wondering... what trigger will it take for you to just place the boxes on the other side of the door?

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