The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
Jack, I've known you nearly five years and have really appreciated your stories. They've really helped and often put a smile on my face. Congrats on your new home and DB forever!
J3B's, You go Man!!! Yeah on the house. I believe every thing happens for a reason (and on Our Higher Powers time clock - not our Own).
You have given myself and so many others here on these boards great wisdom. I do believe that you were one of the first people that I read a post from about 3 years ago that said, you simply would not let all your W's MLC behaviors bug you and eat you alive. I was shocked at first, as I was letting everything my H said and did Really affect me. Now, I feel after a long 4 years I am strong enough to let that crap roll right off my back. Its his issues to deal with and I have my own life to live. I am so happy to have gained that sort of strength from you. And by the way, every time I feel this way - thats when My H starts being more interested in me. It works like a charm for both my self esteem and for gaining that attraction back from my H.
Again, Congrats on the House, Bless you both for coming so far!!! TIPPER
Did you and wifey at least discuss the extra room for me when I come visit ?
Seriously, I'm really happy for you and yours!
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
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