that was some sass to throw in the financial bit too
you handled it better than me because I would have added some snark about the fact that I wouldn't have any issues if the old ex ponied up some darn cash already!!!
Ooh, just remembered another thing. In our exchance on friday nite when I spoke to XH in our other language my S8 said, 'Mommy you need to teach me the language.' And I replied (again totally not intentional)
'That is is Daddys and Mommy's secret code so I cant teach you.'
The look on OW's face was priceless as I used the Mummy and Daddy terminology in front of her - again a connection she can never break.
It was just the cherry on the top!!
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived