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DG, it does seem to just *click*, understanding DB, going dark, etc. It is empowering, isn't it? I also agree with paige that it's easier when there aren't any shared kids (though I'm sure each set misses the other stepparent).

It does get easier DG, but it takes a long time. I still have off days and it's been a year for me. When you do, just let us know (not that you haven't before:) and we'll be here for you!

Today was a very good day. I can't even begin to explain the peace that has come over me. I didn't even think about H much today or wonder what he could be doing. Taking care of myself is a full time job in itself.

I have a good friend who is in town and I haven't seen him since Easter.
We have plans to get together on Saturday. I am looking forward to seeing him.

So glad you had a good day!! It is nice to have peace in your life! I hope you have a great time with your friend.

Journaling----

I've been doing rather well lately. Last night I went out with some girlfriends and had a good time. One thing I am noticing is I am drinking a lot more these days, and I need to cut back on that.
Not because I am developing some sort of problem, but because I don't need all these extra calories.

I logged on to FB last night and received a "poke" from H. I ignored it.

Wow I was just thinking the same thing about drinking lol.. I was thinking how GAL costs too much money too hehe..
Glad you had a good night. So nice to see you feeling better.
And good for you for ignoring his poke! Hope you have fun today when you visit with your friend (is he single?!)

No, he isn't single, LOL. And he also isn't interested in women. We're more like Jack and Karen on Will & Grace.

It is expensive to GAL, so I am going to come up with ways to do it without making myself go bankrupt.
I have worked hard at my weight loss for the past 2 years and I don't want to gain weight due to needless calories.

Just for the heck of it I went and read my initial posts on this board.

All I have to say is I've come a long way

Yes, you have and I am really inspired by watching you grow.

No doubt about it, DG. You certainly have. Keep up the good work! I'm really glad to see you string together some good days!

Yes you have!

Me too