I am really glad to see this post by 25yearmlc. Thank you for expounding on your sitch.
I have been here before, did a lot of hard work, and learned that forgiveness was the only way. .. You have had some wonderful truth darts that I have thrown recently at my mother!
And, soon I suppose, I will be throwing them to my STBEX. He is angry, bitter, and hateful. [b]He wanted a D 7 years ago, I DB'd, got us "back", and he filed again last Aug.
He became increasingly violent until in Jan he struck me and went to jail.[/b]
I am moving on now myself. It's like you said--life is short. There are so many blessings that come from learning how to forgive.
You're right about the OW, I think I confused AJm's thread...but you did say your h is "angry, bitter and hateful" and had filed for a div before, and has filed again.
So, I'm still a bit confused.
How or why do you feel he's
he's grown and changing?
I mean, what's that based on?
And your son has seen him physically intimidate you regardless of whether there was contact
so, I am a bit worried about what the message that it's okay to do that, sends.
I'm NOT saying you'd say that or mean to...
but to be aware of it.
Good luck!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
