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thatgirl,

what a milestone post...very good news all round.

I think too, that it makes sense you aren't sure you and your h are out of the woods.

Course not. You're taking the smart slow approach. SO MANY couples rush it b/c the WAS gets burned by an OP or is too afraid of single life or finally has a BIT Of an awakening and they

reconcile without FIRST figuring out how to go forward...not saying to rehash things


but to know what the heck works and what doesn't...of course they end up splitting up again later, for good.

So take your time.


I found the knowledge that there was simply NO WAY h could ever hurt me the same way again, to be very freeing and empowering.

Oddly, its what I needed to know to more fully love b/c I felt safe.

I felt safe partly b/c of his efforts, BUT mostly b/c I now knew something I had not known before.


That's that I'm alright on my own, in fact I"m good on my own. I'm going to have a happy life no matter what or who is in it...and this has vastly improved our M b/c there's so much less fear, which means there's less anger.

And that's empowering and freeing...I think you're getting there.


Bravo!!!




((( )))