jbnati, just found the article and read it. That's one strong woman. She did what all of us are trying to do...not take on our spouses' issues and unhappiness as our own.
I'm hangin'...the down days are becoming more infrequent. I still have those moments of sadness and despair, but I'm finding they don't last as long.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
Any chance when you and your w are closer again (as I think you'll ebb and flow)
that you might do a tiny bit of flirting? Nothing with a certain outcome expected...just letting her know she's attractive (what with all your newly visible muscles and all).
IDK it can come off as pursuit but if you play it right , like you are PLAYING, I think it may be a fun thing.
In fact, try to watch some comedies together. Laughing is a great bonder, and a turn on, and it's an endorphin thing. Geez, what if you had FUN together?
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
