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Hey Kissak, long time...

Just popped in and saw your thread and wondered how things were going with you and your husband.

I'm not really up to speed with all that has transpired over the past year, so I won't say much.

Just this...

What I remember about your husband and his behavior is that he absolutely HATED the thought that you might finally be done with him. You involved with some other male was NOT something he liked thinking about.


Unless my memory fails, he always seemed to reach out to you in some way whenever he thought this was happening.


I only point this out to remind you to be careful with your heart.


I see a familiar pattern in the conversation you had with your husband.


Blessings,

Bill

Thanks BND....hope you had a wonderful 4th as well.

Thank you Walking....Im not so sure about me being amazing but I thank you for the compliment I am trying to live my life. It is however hard to let completely go though. He will always have a piece of my heart.

Thanks again for your support swl I can always depend on you

Bill, it's nice to hear from you. Hope all is well with you. I really dont get on here much and update anymore...just every now and then. I am trying to just live each day because everyday that goes by is one I will never get back.

Me and the kids celebrated the 4th by going to my aunts home and swimming in her pool! On Saturday we went and watched fireworks. Also went to the beach that morning...so it really was a wonderful weekend! I had to let my H know about me going out of town this upcoming weekend. He will have the kids and I wanted to see if he could let them stay an extra night with him. I wanted to tell him when I knew he would be with the OW and wouldnt call me and ask 20 questions.

So, Im looking forward to going away for the weekend with my girlfriends! It will be nice and relaxing! Something I really need!!!!

Hope my post werent or wasnt too perplexing for anyone

Have a great week friends!

As a thread in Surviving shows, a person posing as BND hacked the site yesterday, correcting grammar here and claiming to be divorcing her H because his affair had never ended. BND's real-life friends have confirmed that this was just a hacker.

Kissak, keep up the positive momentum and keep on living your life for you!

Thank you for the info Cyrena

I get to be the 'mod' here.

I have been requested to remove a post. BND's

If I do, the following post by Walking will make Walking look aggresive.

So, I'd have to edit Walking's post.

Instead, Cyrena has been able to post a valid explanation.


I didn't become a moderator to cut and slash, I did so keep MLC 'in-house' if you will.

All I want to be is a crossing guard. Getting new people from point A to point B. Be helpful and such.

Praise publically, critize privately. Privately doesn't work here, so ctricize NICELY.

Kissak, the way you handled the grammar issue, I want to thank you that was classy, there was little to no truth to it, so you choose to ignore it.

We tend to get up in arms when someone attacks people we care about, when those people may or may not need it. I suffer from this as well. In most cases these people can, and I hope are able to handle this themselves.

I am asking you all to help me moderate, by posting threads and replies that do not require me to edit or purge.

Wow.....gorgeous, amazing and now classy.....

You guys are making me blush

Kissak...

He was talking about me

Just kidding.

Eric

You are all of the above too Eric

Back from a girls weekend Had a wonderful time!

Now, back to work and reality.

Feeling down and stressed a little today.

Pray for me please.

Hi everyone....not much going on lately, not that anyone follows my thread that much but I wanted to let you all know Im just living my life.

Not much to report. H took kids on an over night getaway with his gf and her daughter last weekend. I was ok with it as much as I could be until he brought them home that sunday....driving his GF's car. When I saw it pull up in my driveway my heart sank. So I was very distant when he came in the house. He noticed but had no idea why. Of course when he left the kids told me why he was driving her car...then I got a good laugh out of it! Seems they drove her car the weekend while the gf's ex husband had my H's truck for the weekend....seems he needed a vehicle to drive. How crazy is that?? I wonder if I could borrow her car since mines in the shop?? lol

Its just very weird how her ex is always around them hanging out.

Anyway.....I still get the occasional "love you, miss you, oxox" from my H when he is feeling guilty. He always comes back with the usual when I dont give him the response he was looking for. He notices Im living my life and Im slipping farther away from his grasp.

Still having a problem with wanting to date other men. I would have thought I would be ready by now, but Im not.

My son said something that bothered me the other day. He wanted his dad to come over and change a light bulb that had blown, but I had done it instead, he was hoping his dad would come do it so we could spend time together. My son still thinks his dad is gonna come home one day. I didnt know what to say to him.