but they are willing to give me a loan at 20 year fixed that just squeaks under my alimony payment
Congrats!
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He truly doesn't understand the consequences.
NO but that is not YOUR problem – it is HIS.
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He will ruin any chance he has of getting a loan, as well
1) You may be right but the market still have high risk borrowers…. 2) As an ADULT we all make choices on what we do – he made his. As a ADULT we are responsible for our choices. He made his and now you are making YOURS.
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Olive Garden
Okay….bring a big, make that every big zip lock bag with you….then order the all you can eat pasta and meatballs….order until the zip lock bag is full and then ship it to me (ROTFLMAO right now). Seriously, enjoy dinner and the weekend – ya deserve it!
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But the questions still remains . . . .Whose on top???
Hmmmmm……I actually did not give that much thought.
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no way I would subject my son to those guys!
Why not B? We are very nice YOUNG men. Oh wait did I say young..sorry I was talking about me not Grit.
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Eric you know my color is lilac
Grit, I know… that is why I picked up a lilac Blue Clues quilt set for you (with matching sheets no less).
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Gee Punkin, I was thinking I might like to visit. Now, I'm not so sure
SA, you can have my bed if ya come and visit.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Was re introduced last night to the world of flirting. Men my age or older flirting. How can I explain this??? Very nice gentleman standing next to me excused himself for bumping me. No apology necessary, you didn't bump. "How about I buy you pretty ladies a drink?" NO thanks, we have an hour and a half drive home. "Oh, you live in Paris?" "No" He continued to try, it was a friendly conversation, but I eventually whipped out my ultimate tool." I have seven kids and twelve grandkids " and if that don't stop'em. " Some still live with me."
TA DA Who needs Mace? I have family.
Now, since I didn't get home until 1:30 A.M., I am going for an Oscar performance at work looking bright and chipper. This being single is tough!
Punkin, Your night out was too funny! LOL! I'm glad you went out a had some fun. I'm sure you look great today!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Talked to my L this afternoon and he made me feel much more secure about my plans and what I'm doing. We talked about the 'language' of the judge's 'opinion' and how it will effect the settlement that XH's L is supposed to be getting together. He told me I was doing a good job of Covering My A$$.
As for the new home, Termite Inspection went off well. There was some very old damage, but nothing serious and nothing at present or ongoing. Afterall, it is 105 years old. The Home Inspection was/is going on this afternoon. Can't wait to see the results. Got all my fingers and toes crossed.
Driving back to Ft. Smith tomorrow to babysit for my two oldest GS's, so my Dance card is full tomorrow.
If I'm not around this weekend, I hope everyone has a truly wonderful Memorial Weekend, and God Bless our Men in Uniform ( with the possible exception of my XH and the OW)LOL
Good Morning All. Hope everyone had a wonderful or peaceful Memorial Day weekend, whichever they require.
Update on the house. The Inspector says it is a very sturdy little house, with just a few areas that need addressed. Minor things, really. The biggest being that at some point someone had the ceiling of the kitchen dropped from 12 feet to 10 feet, and left the 2 feet in between uninsulated. He says that's a no no. Hoping we can move ahead and close even earlier. My agreement states that they will make all repairs up to $350.00.
I'm itching to get started moving the plants I want to move from here to there.
No word as of yet from XH's L who is supposed to be drawing up paperwork. At this point, I'll just let him bide his time, a bit longer.
Still have nightmares and such involving XH. Wake up sad sometimes, but I'm sure that will pass in time.
Glad to hear the house update. Hopefully, they will do the repairs and WE can all move in.
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No word as of yet from XH's L who is supposed to be drawing up paperwork.
I think it is a good move you letting his lawywer take his time. I would not even call YOUR lawyer (why add to YOUR legal bills). Allow the process to run it's course while you keep moving...rather steppin...foward with YOUR life.
I hope and pray that the nightmares will end soon.
Good Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
OH Punkin! I am praying this all goes well for you. I am thankful that I don't have those nightmares. Heck, I am thankful that I don't wake up every day thinking of H anymore. I think my financial and job worries have taken over that place right now.
Good luck and keep us posted!
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
