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Yes, you have to do this for YOU. MWD says this is best gift you can give yourself.


Islander I think your quote in your signature line is reflective of part of God's plan for all this. Live it. He has a much bigger plan than we can ever imagine. I think you're in a good place.



I completely get what your saying here. I can resemble a lot of this myself.

You know yourself better than we know you Islander. Maybe you have reached your breaking point, I dont think you have , but I am wrong so often that it doesnt matter.

I do know this of you , you are a decent man that will be fine someday with or without your wife. If she comes back, she will be very lucky to have the finished Islander as her mate with the practice model gone.

If she doesnt, she will be the one that isnt fullfilled by the understanding of the new man. YOu dont have to worry about her either because the new islander will be on his way to happiness.

This I KNOW to be true.

I echo some of the above thoughts, take a breather and then make your final decision.

Either way, I got your back buddy.

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I am still doing good, feeling positive and good about myself. I am more confident now than ever that I am going to be alright, but better than alright.

Went to the gym with my D this morning. Not her favorite place to go, so she wrote a contract up and made me sign it, where I agreed to do an art project with her if she went with me. We both signed it. She is so funny.

While she was in the daycare at the gym, she didn't play with anybody, just stood at the window trying to see me and waving when she did. I spoke to the lady running the daycare when I left, and she told me my D just stood there the whole time waning for me. She said she was happy, but just waiting for me. She told me that she could tell my D loved me very much, bc she talked to her about what we were doing today and that she was excited to be with me. Made me feel good.

My D is paining the castle bank tha I made for her now, then I am gaming her swimming.

It made me feel really good when I talked to the lady at the gym, the way she spoke about my D. I really don't need my W to be happy anymore. I don't know what the future holds, but I am looking forward to tomorrow, for me, for us.

Islander, glad you're feeling good and positive.

That's a heckuva compliment from the lady at the gym. Good for you. You are a fantastic Dad!

The contract your D made is cute. It is even cuter that you played along and signed it.

Your spirits sound so much better. I'm happy for you.