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I think I sulked long enough. Not a healthy response. I am stronger than this and I will move forward. I feel like my head is 10 feet above my shoulders. I need to grab the string and pull it back down.

Your damn right Country. Gotta keep moving forward. Stick to your goals and don't let words slow you down. She is very confused right now and in no position to let you know she may have made a mistake. Keep on trucking

Well. I did have a good day/night in San Francisco yesterday. That got my mind off things which was nice. No contact with W since our meeting.

Still thinking about everything this morning though. It can feel like the beginning. I just want to talk reason into her. But, I know I can't.

NOPE. we cant make them see what is best for them and the entire family. Is it possible that they know what they are doing?

Naw, just crazy talk.

Glad you had a good night in Fisco.

Really hope things go well for you Country.
IF we ever R and you do as well, there has to be a way to get together in California and see u first hand.

Crazier things have happended right.

Heres hoping to see you by the Bay someday. And I m not gay.

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Lol 9, that cracked me up.

Things are going better, I'll put it that way.

Back at home and feeling much better. I can't believe that our meeting hit me so hard. It's funny how you can feel so strong one day and then just get completely thrown for a loop. Luckily they don't last as long anymore. I'll keep standing back up, and each time does get easier.

One thing I remembered today. My DB coach emphasized how little time it has really been. Can be hard to remember at times, since it can feel so long. But I just need to continue to be patient. I have to remember that even if she filed today, I'd still have 6 months before it was final. It hasn't even been 3 months since she left.

I know I have the strength to do it.

I hope everyone is doing the best they can. The sun is starting to shine again here. Looks like spring might finally be coming. What a perfect time.

If everything goes to plan, I will see W the next 2 days. Pick up my D after work tomorrow and drop her off Tues. morning. This will at least give me an opportunity to show my strength. I know I need to expect the unexpected, but I doubt the W brings up anything so soon after our talk on Fri. We'll see.

Expect anything Country. She probably wont say anything though as there is usually a PULL back with any type of advance.

YOu be strong and no matter what, dont initiate any type of R talk, even if you THINK, she is hinting.

For me now to talk realationship talk, she would have to say.

1) I have broken off my relationship with numbnts
2) I have been thinking alot lately about us and our family
3) I am not happy at all and dont foresee me being happy without my family around me all the time
4) I do not know if Im in love with you but I do love you and think we can work on the other part.

UNLESS i hear all of those or something like that, I have nothing to say about relationship talk period.

And since those are not likely to happen any time soon

NO relationship talk.

Maybe it would be helpful for yourself to jot down what it would take for you to talk about relationships as well country so that you would not be ambushed.

Just a thought.

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That's a good idea 9. I will NOT bring up R talk that is for sure. Fri. was enough for a while. I just hope she doesn't either, but I know I do need to be prepared just in case. But like I said, I doubt it.

I think I'll send this song to the W.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Eqpq_urCXQ&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Vey Funny country.

Im not sure she would get it right now. Sorry country, taking a shot at your wife but it does make you wonder.

Enjoy the rest of the weekend. Crack a couple of mooseheads and then have some beer.

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