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Definitely do not send it. This letter will just reinforce that you are not a threat.

Damn, I never thought about this angle. Can you explain more your thoughts here?

I love the letter and it us what I want to say to OM in person. But I know it will do NOTHING. but I feel just as you do

Too wordy.

"Keep away from my wife. I'm her husband and it's about time you remembered it.

Or that speech that Samuel L. Jackson gives in Pulp Fiction about striking those down with righteous anger works too.

Never appeal to the OP's "feelings". They are a cockroach that run away when the light gets shined on them.

Now that I like! I'll end with "English! Do you speak it MF'er!!!"

I hear what you're saying. I am not going to send the thing anyways. I think I just needed to get it out of my system.

I see a night of green beer and some general tomfoolery in my future...

Ouch, my head....

I got a text from the W last night...

"Happy St. Patty's Day! Hope you're having fun! Be safe"


From me? Nada, zilch, nothing....

Disclaimer: just my take and humble opinion here. These kinds of situations are tricky and I admittedly do not have first hand experience.

Men who go after married women are "predatory". They may ultimately justify themselves as being "in love" and that they "couldnt help it", but in most cases their own self-interest (pleasure) is overiding any sense of guilt or fear of getting caught or confronted (pain).

Depending on who this person is, he may be a strong personality competing for your W. If you ask for him to consider the damage he is doing, then you are coming from a position of weakness (begging/pleasding), and he will just lose respect for you and assume he is winning the "contest".

If he is a weak personality, he may actually be afraid of confrontation. If you plead with him this way, it will ease his fears of being confronted. Again he will lose respect for you.

In both cases, it will only do harm.

VENTING!!!

Just received text from OM's W. She says she saw a picture of W, OM & D.

First, I am certain this is a lie. This woman is crazy. When I first contacted her she said she would not say I called. She told me she would say a lady named "Diana" called from OM's/W's work. Well, just a day later she was telling me how this "Diana" called as if she was real. She may even believe this made up character is real, IDK.

Anyways, even though I know she is just trying to cause trouble, it still p!sses me off! What a f'd up situation!!!

I can't believe my life has turned into this...



islander, if you need anymore assurance as to why contacting OM's W is a bad idea, I hope this is it.

I decided you were right and I have no idea what I would be getting myself into if I contact his W.

Just what you need in this effed up equation. OW just to add some more Drama to the academy award drama of the year.

Hang in there Country.

Block this woman somehow so you dont have to put up with her BS.

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