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I think I was afraid to post it, I know it will not be popular, but sent my W the following this morning after the OM's CW called:
"OM's CW left me a message. She wanted to know if you two were living together. I will not return the message. I am very uncomfortable with D in this situation. I really hope you are not subjecting her to your affair. I am worried about what OM's CW could be capable of. I trust you to use good judgement through this."
I won't post it verbatim, but she just responded ensuring me D was safe. No answer as to whether they are living together, or what she subjects our D to.
A little bit later she sends me a message asking how I am feeling and letting me know that D is doing well and she is planting flowers on her patio.
How special for her.
I guess with the last message I at least didn't P her off at me. But I am not responding any more, she is on her own with this craziness. I have to decide whether I believe this is a dangerous situation or not for our D, and if so take action, if not, let it go.
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She sure doesn't make it easy on me. Sends me a long video of D. Tell's her to "say dadda." Then the cat shows up. She says "the cat says hi."
This is where your advice comes in gr8. I need to think. Does it make sense that a W who has left me and is having an A sends me this stuff? Answer: NO!
I will remove myself from it. I will enjoy my afternoon/evening.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
