I am truly flattered by your kind words. I still sometimes grapple if I should be giving advise to anyone, but it's easier to do that here because we are all on the same page. The outside is a little tougher. Having said that, some friends who are going thru the same thing (and not ont he boards) have asked for my help in various ways. I feel it just validates how far I've come and it's part of my motivation to keep me going. It has been a 1 year journey to get to this place between therapy and these boards. I hope you both know that I think you are amazing guys and I couldn't have continued on this path without your support and the rest of the BITS.
I continue my self-growth everyday and I will be doing a journaling piece on this thread (or a new one) hopefully this week. I have alot of thoughts swirling in my head and just need to collect them more before I feel I'm able to share.
I'm here for you both as you have been for me; that's just how us BITS roll! ;-)
Peace and Hugs - ZEN
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
