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Thanks grr. I have to admit, I saw your name as replied and I was expecting a 2x4.

Love this song. New Radiohead album. Substitute "Mr. Magpie" with "Mrs. Country Song" and it fits perfectly!

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You got some nerve coming here
You got some nerve coming here
You stole it all
Give it back
You stole it all
Give it back
Good morning Mr. Magpie
How are we today?
Now you've stolen all the magic
And took my memory
You know you should
But you don't
You know you should
But you don't
Good morning Mr. Magpie
How are we today?
Now you've stolen all the magic
Took my melody

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uqVcKwEJ2w4

Forgot to mention. MIL called this morning. Kind of weird since they have been completely silent towards me through this whole thing.

Anyways, it was short and sweet. Asked how I was doing. I of course said great. Asked what I wanted for my B-Day. Really? I was always uncomfortable with them getting me B-Day presents before all of this. How old am I? Anyways, I told her a simple happy birthday would be more than enough. She said she would send a card.

That was it.

Weird....

I talked to my MIL once since all this happened. It was a little weird but I pretended like all was well. We talked about the news and the weather. She called to wish my D a happy bday. Kind of uncomfortable throughout the convo. I also saw when I was visiting in OK and we talked for a little bit. I don’t know if I am getting detached but I really could care less.

Kind of a weird feeling lately. W texted last night for the first time since our walk on Tuesday. I didn't reply. Didn't even want to.

It might have finally hit me. I am far less interested in what she is doing, or what she is thinking.

Do I want to save my M? Yes. But right now, I think I need the space as much as she does. I am starting to legitimately enjoy my time. Learning a lot.

Of course, I wouldn't be surprised by a step backwards, but right now I am looking forward.

The text from the wife fired right back up this weekend. I only responded once and was short.

I'm in a bit of a weird place. The girl I saw the other night is coming over tonight to 'hang out.'. I have to say, it has helped me detach, but I'm a little worrried about her. Like I said, she knows my sitch, but I need to make sure she understands I am in place for a serious relationship. I need to make sure she is cool with that before I go much further.

do you mean you are in NO place for a serious relationship?
if so, just be careful....
and while i think it it great if she is helping you detach, you don't want to hurt anyone or yourself more in the long run

i am really happy tho' that you are starting to enjoy yourself and don't feel the need to contact your wife right away

you are on a good road

Thanks grr. Yes, I meant No place. Darn iPhone keyboard!

Skipped replying to another text from te W last night. She didn't send it until later, after the time our D goes to sleep, so what's the point?

good for you....

it feels good not to be jumping thru hoops, doesn't it?