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I was thinking from an emotional point of view


Karma you usually are wink

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Another twist I just thought about and BTW, really good points on both sides. I sign the sep papers today and then they go to her. I should probably bite the bullet and go to the party as to not raise her ire right now. No use upsetting her at this point as I think we are both getting a decent settlement.

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Originally Posted By: 2stepboogie
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I was thinking from an emotional point of view


Karma you usually are wink

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heh... wife always said that i should have been in theater than in electronics smile


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Go Only if you want to be there for your son.

Your W has such a powerful influence on you.
You should not be worrying about what she thinks if you do not attend.

Let her thoughts be hers.


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Quote:
You should not be worrying about what she thinks if you do not attend.

Let her thoughts be hers.


I agree with this.

When we make the most progress is when we stop trying to figure the other person out and do for ourselves.

Now let me go post this on my thread!!


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