John - congrats to you; sounds like you may have turned a slight corner.

As everyone stated, don't push the door all the way open as she may get spooked and slam it in your face. Baby steps and patience. Reconnection before reconciliation.

Stay strong and positive!


BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11