grr, Sounds like his little underwear party may have been a test. Women aren't the only ones to try to flaunt it. I just keep going back to the stuff the WAS that I interviewed told me. Throughout his period away, he hid it from his W, but he was miserable. Couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, couldn't work, had to see a counselor. He may be having some regrets and just wanted to see how you would react. Stay strong.
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
FOBD--- can you please post that link to that thread again where you had the convo with your friend who was the WAS? I'd like to sift thru that again. That held some good sh!t!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
Grrr... i know what you mean. I am in the midst of my and my D12's crisis - tears, anxiety attacks (see my post) - My H is traveling.... was very concerned ...calls from the airport stopover (4x in an hour, not normal for him even in the best circumstance) of course initially to ask about us, but the later calls were to talk about how crappy the business class lounge was, and the plane itself.
I was just thinking of how our convo sounded so normal..and I realized that we were both trying to recreate a normal atmosphere in trying to not feel the crisis that is upon us.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
FOBD--- can you please post that link to that thread again where you had the convo with your friend who was the WAS? I'd like to sift thru that again. That held some good sh!t! [/quote]
Sure, I will add it to my current thread tonight. Glad it helps.
Grr, how are we doing tonight? Did you underwear party him back?
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
angel i am so sorry your daughter is going through that as well you need to be the strong, wonderful woman you are, for her she is so lucky to have you and she will be brillliant
it's so hard not to read into the convo's isn't it?
i find it easier when my h is traveling how about you?
fobd he is not home tonight, and i know that if i did that he would get pissed off tho, of course it's alright for HIM to do that hope you are alright too
Pissed off??? Hmmmm... that is interesting. Why would he get pissed off? Seriously, I'm not sure if that's a bad thing. If he would, I would think that would be worse.
