Sometimes what we fear the most is exactly what is needed. She text you………………You don’t respond
She text you again………………………..You respond
You go dark she reaches out
See the pattern here?
Exactly.
How do you overcome a fear??? Be facing it head on. Fear of flying? Go on a flight. Fear a heights? go on a ferris wheel.
CS,
Please be careful NOT to have any contact with W when you are drinking. Drinking blurrs our judgement and thinking. Embed it in your head that you WILL NOT respond to texts while you have been drinking.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Stay focused Country that's all we can do from this point forward. Facing our feers is a huge obstacle heck I am nervous thinking about how I should tell the wife that she owes me money for the utilities that she hasn't paid yet. I know I have to stand up to her and not let her short me on money this month. I can't let her keep getting away with acting like a child. I refuse to put up with this anymore. She quit the marriage I didn't and why should I keep paying her way? I won't! It's not my job to help her anymore.
Sorry for the vent Country but I am hitting a new place in my life.
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
