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Spell i definitely think it was a green light. There was no reason for her to even tell me she found it much less send it to me along with private pics of herself. People that want a divorce dont do that or at least i dont think they do.


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i didn't sit with my foot on the brake i interacted with her sexually for over 2 hrs. just dont wanna set myself up


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just wish i knew if it were a heat of the moment thing or she is really having second thoughts


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and she hasn't text much all day today except to ask me for money


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but like i said it eases my mind a lil knowing she in coming after me sexually prob means there is no one else or at least he aint satisfying her


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I think you are correct on all counts, and I read this exactly the same way:

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There was no reason for her to even tell me she found it much less send it to me along with private pics of herself. People that want a divorce dont do that or at least i dont think they do.


As far as setting yourself up, I can only tell you that you need to let go of having expectations as much as you can, and just let whatever is going to happen, happen.

Easier said than done, I know. I still set myself such expectations with my W. I am trying to let go and not get so tied to the outcomes, but it is tough.

Hang in there man. Gonna check on your history and see if I can get up to speed.


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alrigth spell fire read from the start and u will see how far ive come hahahahahahah


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I need opinions is it normal for a woman adiment about divorce to send her stbxh sexually explicit videos of them along with nude pics and engage in a sexually charged conversation for hrs.


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No it's not normal, as far as my own experience is concerned. If they did, I would attrribute it to them seeing us like friends with benefits.


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well i aint being friends with benefits. So she will just have to find someone else


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