After talking all day yesterday about agreeing on stuff with the divorce me and my W get in a conversation about why i am the way i am and i explained it to her, she asked why do u have to be like that. I told her cause you always have allowed me to and up until now i had no consequences for my actions. She then says that she briefly starts thinking about taking me back but then i do something to remind her of why she left. Now to the funny part. I was in the gym last night and she text me saying guess what i found on my phone. i said what she told me it was a sexually explicit video of me and her a few months back. She then sent it to me and ask do i remember what i was doing. I said of course i remember. The conversation then became very sexually charged and lasted until midnight with her saying she missed me sometimes. She said she wanted me so bad but we couldn't do that. May not mean anything just wanted to share. Even in the situation i am in things do turn around and i have done everything wrong and we both have filed for divorce.
That's great John! It IS an interesting turn of events. It may or may not be an isolated incident, but it IS a positive. I'm glad your wife brought the video up, man. It's sad that my wife would rather rely on battery-aided satisfaction nowadays, and probably the hope of another man pleasing her.
I forgot to add all this is after she saw me for the first time in three months last Friday night at a local sports bar. Then the following night she shows up at a cookout i was at.
When she found the video in my opinion all she had to do was deleted it and never saw a word to me about, there is a reason she did. I think its gods work that she found it.
She said she wanted me so bad but we couldn't do that.
"Come and see me and I will prove you wrong."
Sorry John, I know little of your current situation, but I read this at her hinting at you to step up. It may or may not fit into your current plan, but acting very masculine and in control might be what you need to draw her back.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
Spellfire what do u mean by come seem and i will prove you wrong
You said the conversation became very sexually charged and she said she wanted you but that she couldnt do that.
I am just saying that if a woman I wanted sent me a sexually explicit video and told me she wanted me, my next step would be to see how strong she really believed that you "couldnt do that". I would tell her to come over so you could prove her wrong, that actually you are two adults who CAN do that if you want.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
