Depends. I normally take my son to church on Sunday (one of his favorite places; he talks about going to church all the time) and have lunch at a taco truck (another of his faves), so if taking him out on Saturday will negate our Sunday together, then no. I will hang out with one of my church families.
Thanks Sandi. Just getting a response from you is good enough to cheer me up.
I actually had an amazing day with my son. My wife called it her packing day; I call mine quality time with my boy. We went to one of our more frequented children's museums in Berkeley. They had a new setup, so my son had a blast with the firetruck and hospital e-room. Then we went to Chuck E Cheese's for lunch. It's also one of his favorite spots. I'm spending every second of my time with him like it was my last. Heck, writing this is making me cry. I hope...correction...I DON'T want to be phased out of his life. He is my pride and joy. He even gave me three kisses and a tight hug when I got him out of bed this morning. That's rare and makes me so weak in the knees just thinking about him being gone from my life.
Alamo: Personally i'd not be there man. My Wife and her sister came in one day and took everything of hers and our daughter's away in a van. I mean everything. All the photos that had her family members were gone. We spent 1 week decorating our daughter's room. stripped clean. If i was at home that day, i might have ended up in the hospital due to a heart attack or stroke. Before they came, i thought i should stay. But i decided against it. I think i made a good choice. The home was not the same again. One thing i did do that evening was to video record everything in the house. If nothing, i wanted to show my daughter one day when she's older, how mommy and daddy decorated the house and her room and how our old home used to look like. I am a sentimental fool
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
Karma, i'll be out that day, it's decided. In a couple of months it'll be my turn to move out since I can't afford to keep it. In the meantime, it'll be one huge quiet, lonely house that used to be filled with some semblance of love, joy and laughter. I've always been a family guy and I hate the thought of being single again.
In a couple of months it'll be my turn to move out since I can't afford to keep it.
Don't wait until then, start finding a place now. The name of the game is "be prepared".
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I just noticed my wife reverted her FB name back to her maiden name
Look sweetie, you can't let things like that push your buttons. She's already told you she wants a D, so don't be surprised when you see her to things that endorse it.
Do yourself a favor and stay off her FB page b/c whatever you see is going to make you crazy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Look sweetie, you can't let things like that push your buttons. She's already told you she wants a D, so don't be surprised when you see her to things that endorse it.
Do yourself a favor and stay off her FB page b/c whatever you see is going to make you crazy.
I guess I've convinced myself that this entire time she is under a great deal of inner turmoil over her decision, where part of her is saying divorce, while the other part is questioning it. I may be naive for thinking that the part that has greater say is the latter, because that is the part of my wife I know - the caring, empathetic and loving person.
