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She responded right away with a big "thanks!" oh well, at least I got her thinking, she asked 3 times today. Although I caved, it is a move in that direction and maybe this way it will ease into it.


She just texted AGAIN! The pic I sent was of us having dinner at our local Mexican place. She asks " is that xxx?". Of course it is, you know that!

I don't know what it means, but she is making things up to contact me. Tough to know how to handle it. It seems positive, but....

Again! "Is that her plate?"

WTF! Of course it is!

She is just so weird with this. What is she thinking!

nice! No harm in the pic, I don't think.

Glad you left it short though.

Seriously, simply take it as she's interested in what you're doing.

That means, you're doing something RIGHT! VERY NICE!

But continue to play it cool.

Remember, who knows what she is thinking. Look at things for face value and enjoy your time. I bet you're enjoying having her squirm a bit, no?

I am! The last few text were just so weird. Questions she new the answer to, no reason to send them at all. I just don't fully know what to make of it or how to handle it. Ignoring for now...

cs you are getting way too excited

right now. take a step back.
she may do the jeckle n hyde on
you soon. just proceed with
caution

I know gr8. It is just such a weird one. I just don't know what to make of it. Truth of course is I am worried about making a mistake. I would rather have no interaction at all for a while.

For every big mistake you make be greatful..

That mistake you'll never make again.

I hear you, CS. I have a six month old boy that W and I have been splitting custody 50/50 for the last few months. It is difficult not to give updates or respond when she texts about him. I try to keep it brief, but it always ends up in those kind of "you know the answer" questions. Sometimes I think she is really pushing the "co-parenting" role (my sitch explains this). Sometimes I think she really cares. It is tough to judge.

Best advice I have been given is relish the time with your D. Let you W envy it.

Good luck, man.

Hey sparks, really sorry to hear about your sitch. It [censored] right!!??!! Thanks for coming in, I'll get caught up tomorrow. Tonight, a little drunk

One thing that has become so true to me, I will be a better, stronger person after all of this regardless. That is a good feeling.

For sure, man. Bolt and Mach have been preaching GAL and detachment to me. Figg is my saving grace to set me straight. This board has been the best advice I have received.

Stay strong. You are doing just fine.

BTW. Most of my good friends were unavailable to hangout tonight (and my wife was keeping my son), so I decided that wine would be a good friend of mine tonight. Sometimes you just have to drink your sorrows. I feel your pain.