oh she is staying with her parents almost 250 miles away. The only destination my sitch is facing is an imminent final divorce decree in about 2 weeks. I am not ready for it. but i have 0 contact with my W's family on this (i guess they just wanna be on the sidelines). My W's totally planned out her life and my daughter's life with her family right now...You know, it just s*cks.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
No shame in saying that you like to hear from your W. Its how we handle those interactions. I wish my wife would call me everyday. That's not happening right now, but when we do talk I make sure to listen, validate, and end the convo on a good note. Sometimes it leads to more interaction, sometimes not, but I truly believe I am making progress.
Hey karma, I got caught up on your sitch and commented in there. Bottom line, yes, it does suck! I still have those weird gut moments where it just sinks and I can't believe this happening.
BITS
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
You are putting too much energy on interpreting her text.
I agree. CS you are still allowing her to control how you feel. She texts you and you think everything is hunky dory. Is it?
I'm sure you want more. How is she going to miss you if you're in contact with her daily? She still gets her family life and has no committment to you.
That can't be. Stay focused on yourself.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
