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Thankyou for your kind words and the pat GAG!

I posted the recipe on punkin's thread!

I am supposed to go out tonight with some old friends/co-workers. They are going to be in my neck of the woods tonight but I hate to say that I started feeling a little flu-like at work and may not be able to go. Sad as I'd really like to them and I really need a fun night out!

Hope everyone has a good rest of the weekend!


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Courageous, I do hope you get feeling better. I was in the same situation last night but ended up going out anyway and feel no worse for the wear. I think sometimes a pick up in spirits can help to fend off some sickness as long as you can get some rest afterwards.

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Thanks for dropping by MMI! Good to see you here! I ended up not going afterall...they understood and will call me the next girl's night out.


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Too bad you couldn't make it out CW, but I understand. I grabbled with the idea a lot last night and if H wasn't coming over to watch the kids, I may have bailed too with how I was feeling but in the long run, was glad I didn't. I hope you are feeling better and there is always another girl's night out!

I'm just getting ready to snuggle in with my little darlings for a good night's sleep before hitting the big birds ping ponging across the country on Monday for 10 days! Take care of yourself and hugs to you.


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CW,

I certainly hope you don't have a bug coming on. I had one last weekend and was miserable the whole time. But it brings up a thoughtful question:

Does anyone else ever feel guilty about their GAL trips and outings? I always feel anxious, as if I am about to do something behind H's back. Even though I know that is ridiculous.

Anyone?

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You are right MMI...there will be more nights. Sounds like you have an adventure coming up! You take care too!

Thanks punkin...seems better today...who knows? Something I ate? Nerves?

In answer to your question..I don't feel guilty about outings or galing. I am not doing anything to be ashamed of! I might feel guilty if I felt like I was leaving my kids all the time!


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Well, wouldn't you know it?

For weeks, H has just dropped the kids off and left so I haven't bothered getting all spruced up the last few times...well, wouldn't you know today he came in!

I had taken a shower and fixed my hair and had minimal makeup on but was in my comfy sweats...oh well.

Apparently "I" need to fill out the insurance verification form and mail it.

He did ask about the aquarium and if it was working ok.

That is it.


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Ah courageous, don't you hate it when they catch you off guard. Oh well, I'm sure you were just as dazzling in your comfy sweats so don't sweat it LOL.

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I bet you didn't look half as bad as you did to yourself. You probably looked comfy and at-home; a feeling they lack entirely.

By the way, Thanks for the receipe.

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Thanks MMI and punkin...I was definitely comfy!

Well, got the phone call I have been waiting for...our L's have agreed on a day and time for our settlement conference. It is a week from Friday so I have some time to get myself psyched.

I will be honest...was really hoping, hoping, hoping that it would be put off or not happen at all...has definitely put a damper on my day


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