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So I hear

He is in a rock band

I thought they all had at least 1 sleepy eye

You guys ever hear of the group "Arcade Fire"? Started listening to them today. They're damn good.

Anyway, I'm happy to see that everyone seems to be sharing a few laughs here tonight... It is nice.

BITS
Denver

Yeah I've hear of them, this late at night though I listen to this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Funp7JTWp2A

NICE!

2step you are funny
denver, i love arcade fire
hey what do you know?
i've been up since 4 thirty
fun!

Sweet Grr,

Just got caught up on your thread. I'm so sorry that your are going through all this too. I'm adding you to prayer list! But, LIS and others are correct. You are the only one that can decide what is a deal breaker and if you want to keep fighting.

It's clear to me that your LOVE your H and want your family to stay intact. Your H smoking dope and all the other stuff. You just can't think about all that stuff right now. If you want to try and save your marriage you have to work on finding peace w/all the old hurt FIRST.

Take it from the former QUEEN of resentment and anger. If you don't release that old pain, you can never do the work that needs to be done on YOU.

We all get lost in this mess Grr. So, don't give up! Your sweet S deserves his wonderful Mommie in all her glory to raise and love him.

I'm praying for you!

BITS

Dixie
"Life is Short, Pray Hard"

thank you dixie
i do love him and want to keep us together
it's funny, my h is disconnected from people by nature
he isn't the most sensitive guy in the world and his world pretty much revolves around him,,,always had (although he is a great dad)
i really thought i was ok with all of this
that i didn't need much, which i guess i don't
but i do need something
or else my emotions would not have manifested in the angry words i spew to him from time to time
he is so very clear that there is no turning back for him
i know i need to just let hm go and see if that really is his truth
because in the end, i know my self worth
in the end, i don't want to be married to someone who does not want me

ok boys, so i don't get the lazy eye thingy
is that this ^^^^^^^^^?
i wish he did have one
that would be awesome right now
ggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!

This ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is just to bumb your thread up.

Took me awhile to figure out what it meant.

The lazy eye comment Denver was referring to was to my response to your question above

booo i can't figure it out
tell me
sleepy eye, anyway