I got mine Jack... "This is War" by 30 Seconds to Mars! Thanks.
I can't believe all of the great words of wisdom that I'm getting this afternoon! Jack, Grit, Dixie, Grr, 2Step... Thank you.
Grr... you are hilarious!! You can be certain that I will!
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Hey, Jack is great!!! But I wouldn't complain too much 2Step... you got MichelleLRT over on your's!
Thanks Hope!
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I thought maybe I'd do some prep for your meeting.
Let's just keep visualizing the meeting .... you're in the Matrix. You can slow time down .... and whether the news is good, or bad ... you will be able to react calmly and slowly. And if you're in doubt ... you can wait and figure things out.
Validate, validate .... friendly, warm, funny, radiant .... but ephemeral. Can't hit us, can't touch us ... WE BITS ARE I CONTROL
B.I.T.S
Formerly known as onStepAtATime Me:31 W:31 T:13 yrs M:8 yrs D: 20 months ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10 "I want a separation" 1/05/11
I like that Ironman... that is how I visualize myself!!
Jack - man, that Mudvayne song is heavy duty!! I didn't envision you as someone who would have suggested that one...
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Denver FYI, I seldom post at nights, it is my family time, ONE of my failings in my marriage was losing myself in the computer and ignoring my wife and family, one could say this is a self imposed boundary.
As a mod, I do not want someone in need to wait 16 hours however, before they can post. Only in MLC though can I do that. So with my wife's blessing I check here every now and then.
I'll post tomorrow and look forward to it, I am glad that you liked what I wrote.
Along those lines? I'm not sure I would have taken my wife back if I hadn't become a better person.
I want to say one of the coolest things about Jack is that it took a LONG time to bring him on as a moderator because he took the time to work through this with his wife and obtain her blessing. His involvement here is a the heart of his family.
