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Re: after a little more than a year i am back grr #2125895 02/01/11 11:43 PM
Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,031 Colorado D Denver_2010 Member
Denver_2010 Member D Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,031 Colorado	Originally Posted By: grr denver, i cannot respond,, as he has no cel service on the island his message said he would call back anyway tonight to speak to son should i not speak to him when he calls? I'd probably consider just letting your son talk to him and finding a polite way of being busy if he asks to talk with you. Of course, I forget how old your son is, so don't know if he can answer and get off the phone with your H by himself. BITS Denver M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce

Re: after a little more than a year i am back Denver_2010 #2125905 02/02/11 12:13 AM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 667 G grr OP Member
OP grr Member G Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 667	he is nine and that is a good idea and i asked you this in another thread, but i don't understand "believe zero of what they say" i mean, of course, i understand what all those words in the sentence mean, but i cannot grasp that concept thanks hope you are well we are getting an ice storm in ny yay fits my mood BITS

Re: after a little more than a year i am back grr #2125907 02/02/11 12:15 AM
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OP grr Member G Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 667	ooops found your reply thanks BITS

Re: after a little more than a year i am back grr #2125908 02/02/11 12:16 AM
Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,031 Colorado D Denver_2010 Member
Denver_2010 Member D Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,031 Colorado	I answer on SIC's thread. But basically it means what it says. WAS is, in a way, crazy and in a fog. Most likely just as confused as we are, if not more. Somebody on here posted the following and it helped me understand it... "The way I got through that period was I saw my W as one of those crazy homeless people that you see sometimes muttering to themselves. After that, nothing she did or said really bothered me. I just tsked tsked it and chose to be happy." BITS Denver M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce

Re: after a little more than a year i am back Denver_2010 #2125918 02/02/11 12:30 AM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	grr, Tomorrow may be a better day, but why not the next hour? Why put it off? Yeah I know its happy fluffy bunny thinking. But it beats the heck out of moping around your home. Do something you like. It's your choice. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: after a little more than a year i am back Jack_Three_Beans #2125929 02/02/11 12:35 AM
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OP grr Member G Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 667	thank you and i like happy fluffy bunnies so there you go BITS

Re: after a little more than a year i am back grr #2125937 02/02/11 12:39 AM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	grr, Simple fact of all of this, is it comes down to your choice. You can decide to do this, and bemoan it all the while. OR You can decide to do this and...I dunno grow, learn, live your life, fill in the blank, find the silver lining. You know? Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: after a little more than a year i am back Jack_Three_Beans #2125998 02/02/11 02:13 AM
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OP grr Member G Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 667	my head understands what you are saying but my heart.............she has a harder time with things but that is good advice and everyday i will wake up and give said choice a good shot thanks for your input BITS

Re: after a little more than a year i am back grr #2126006 02/02/11 02:38 AM
Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,031 Colorado D Denver_2010 Member
Denver_2010 Member D Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 3,031 Colorado	Mine too grr... especially tonight. Hang in there... BITS Denver M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce

Re: after a little more than a year i am back Denver_2010 #2126057 02/02/11 04:50 AM
Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 672 Connecticut Z zengypsy Member
zengypsy Member Z Joined: Dec 2010 Posts: 672 Connecticut	grr, I didn't realize you were from the NY area so you are bracing for the Ice/Snow as well. I am SO done!!! Anyway, I pray for you everyday that things will get better for all of us and that our S's find their way home. Hang in there my friend - sending you (((((HUGS)))))! BITS M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11

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