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It's a mind-set. It's the turning point when they are working with you, when they are interested in you, interested in rebuilding the relationship.

thanks so much dbmod. I really appreciate what you say. I feel like I know where I'm at but again my patience wears thin... I'm working on it.

Hi NTGR--


I understand about patience wearing thin. Hang in there!

sg

SO I backslide a bit this AM. My H recieved a Yahoo IM at 3:30 AM. He said it was a SPAM. I didn't beleive it as I never heard of such a thing on IM. After a smart-a$$ comment by me he insisted on me looking at his phone to see the latest messages. Well he was right, I was wrong. I am upset with myself but also defensive. Being trust is so precarious I almost feel justified. Do I apolozie or just let it go?

Hi NTGR, I started a thread for you in Newcomers, that's a good place for you.

Why do I have a lock by my post? I'm not able to piston my stitch but able to post on others... I guess I'm locked out, but why?

I think your thread was too long. It doesn't mean you're banned. Just start another one.

That's correct. A little while ago, I liked all recent threads on newcomers that were over 100 posts. If you need help linking, let me know.

Can someone please explain the moderation set up? Posts aren't up after 2 days, threads staying on page 3 or 4. Is it moderated or automated? Am I doing something wrong? I can't find any posts on this so I thought I'd ask as I'm confused and see others confused too. I know it takes a lot of work to run forums (I run them for work so I do know) so believe me, I am not complaining at all!

Newbies posts are fully moderated and generally approved within 24 hours. I do not understand right now while some of them are staying on later pages, we are working to try to figure that out.

Are your forums UBB?