Mr. Bond seems you were right again i ask a couple of my girlfriends and they said no that it will just show she still has u under her power and will show weakness and seem pushy.
update!!!!!!!! well she calls me and says the divorce papers are ready so i ask her where they are that i will go pick them up. she tells me the attorney who is some 99 dollar divorce attorney. i go get them and find out she hasn't paid him and no papers have been drawn up only a complain. i take the complaint to my attorney which i had to pay a 5,000 retainer fee. and she responds to my w attorney saying we would be subpoenaing all of her phone, text, email, and Facebook information. and that he had till next fri to file or we would be. my w starts texting me last night saying she doesn't hate me and that she has given me a million chances and she is tired of trying. she the says i care about you and always will u are the father of our little boy i just cant live with you. i said fine do what u have to do and i was sorry