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You and me OneStep... on the bad list. My posts take forever too. Here's an attempt at a bump for you.

1step-2step here. Just checking on you. How is it going?

Things are going fine. Today she was DBing me I think. Acting super happy. I had a vivid sex dream about her last night. Arggg.

I'm good though. I have 2 offers for new jobs ... so have 3 opportunities including my current one. Future's so bright, botta wear shades :-). She seemed kind of upset last night ... I think she's always had some jealousy about my career success. Not my problem. Daughter and I are going to heave so many opportunities with or without W.

I get anxious ... but I really feel like she needs to get out in the real world to see if it is as cool as she thought. No doubt she's long taken me for granted.

Life is good 2step and Denver. W's are going to do what they're going to do. Only people we control are ourselves ... and we only get to live once. Let's make it a great ride.

How're the rest of the BITS?

WOW, thanks for making it instant now, DBMod!!! This is awesome.

I'm doing pretty well right now 1step. It sounds like you are doing great with PMA and detaching. Good for you! Keep us posted.

BITS
Denver

You are spot on! We have to take care of self right now. They will go through their own cycle. If we love them we will be there on the other side. I do believe that those of us that make it out on the other side will have a much better M than we ever dreamed.

Sounds like are feeling pretty good about yourself right now and that is GREAT! I did some DB no no just a little bit ago. Oh well live and learn I guess

I do feel good. I remembered that I kick ass :-) Not sure when I started letting this lady be the owner of my testes but I have them back. I really am thankful to her for doing all this in that I've got the old me back.


Just posted on your thread as well 2step. Wow, crazy times. Yeah, we make mistakes ... and we learn. Remember what it felt like to be the scared little boy whose wife was threatening to leave us and divorce us? Those boys have gotten off the ground, dusted themselves off and remembered they were badass men. But that was all learning and evaluating and making mistakes.

You're doing amazing. Just remember that WE are in charge. If they come back .... great. And yeah ... we'll have an amazing M .... either with them or somebody else. That's their choice.

1step

Go back and read the beginning on your thread. You are the MAN. Everything we do from this point forward must be about us, we can't control the WAW. I am proud of you! I think you are way ahead of me but I am on your heals.

Thanks for reminding me to look back at where I started, 2step. That really does shine some light on how much better things are now. I think we all need to remind ourselves of how far we've come.

BITS .... protect your manhood

heya oneStep, just catching up on your sitch and giving a two thumbs up on how you are handling things! Good job.