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You can believe that, but I believe you are doing yourself and your marriage a major disservice with that line of thinking. You can buy all the men are from mars and women are from venus B.S you want. I mean it sells a lot of books.

The problem is that many people instead of trying to have a real relationship with their spouse fall into these stereotypical roles - the nagging wife, the sulking husband (sound familiar?) Do you realize you sound like a beer commercial? Is it any wonder why you are here?

Are really saying you don't need to be loved, respected to be happy? You don't need friendship from your wife to be happy? You don't need to love of your kids to be happy? But beer will cheer you right up. Seriously?

I never said women and men were exactly alike, but we are more similar that different. Now if you want to live in a world where men and women are so different, then you will continue to struggle in your marriage. I'm pretty sure of that. I think it sets up a system where if you believe the differences.

You sex analogy doesn't make sense. If that's the case, why don't you dump your wife for someone more beautiful if that's all you need to be happy. If your wife was as cold as she was in the beginning, but still had sex, would you be here wanting to save your marriage?

The deeper heart thing offends me on so many levels that I think I'm done with you

Then be done Harrier.

You take everything out of context. Of course I need love and respect but that was not what sandi was referring too anyway. Nor was I.

If you really feel men an women are the same in sooo many ways that's fine. No one said that YOU have to buy the "men ate from mars women are from Venus" BS. That does not make you right.

I see your problem exactly. You don't respect the opinion of others. You feel you're right because you believe it.. You come off as arrogant. But I don't think you are. You like to play devils advocate. What if your W believed in MAFMWADV? Would you tell HER it was BS. If you did I'm sure she would really respect you..


With that frame of thinking good luck in YOUR marriage...