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Oh Ok. Yes that's what I'm doing. If he wants this, he's going to do the heavy lifting and adminstrative paperwork that goes along with it.

I thought I'd do him the courtesy of asking instead of assuming.
In the past I would have said nothing and paid the bill, but...he accuses me of being controlling, so I asked, given he's said he wants a divorce, I asked.

I'm just a little confused by the result.

It costs me an extra $44 bucks and a stamp. LOL


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Who wants out?

Him or you?

Act as if...

Paying a bill for me is never assuming.

"I'm just a little confused by the result."

He assumed you were gonna give him a hard time over the $44 and a stamp!!

Good thing you did not do that!!


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.


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He wants out.

Well Forest given he believes I'm controlling, I asked instead of assuming he wanted to remain under my membership. Given he wants out, I didn't make any assumption that he wanted it continued seeing he has a brand new car.

I'm confused by the result, because he said he wants a divorce, but he wants to keep this tie to me?


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