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i think the biggest thing is my actions and the things i said to her after the separation and always accusing her of having someone else when she doesn't.

I saw that John,

What maybe you didn't see is that you not talking to her got her wondering about you, and that was just a week.

Give it more time, and see what happens.

Have your read Divorce Remedy?

No offense but right now you're coming off about as scattered as a hamster on crack and 4 wheels in its cage.

hahahahahahaahaha yea i know i ramble but better her than with her. yes Ive read it very logical book.

i am the poster child of chasing cheeseless tunnels hahahahahaha

Stop doing the things that don't work then. Right?

Easier said than done, yes, but even that is just an excuse.

jack your right i should have learned in three months begging pleading trying to make her feel guilty and bad mouthing her that it isn't gonna work and just reaffirms her decision to separate.

i know i cant worry about her sleeping with someone while we are separated but it drives me insane. i know women have sex drives and we have been separated for three months so i feel sure it will happen soon. just wish thee was an easy to deal with it.

Not to put a shiny fluffy bunny on your wife maybe sleeping with someone else, but your imagination tends to make reality worse than it is.

jack i know i have always done that even when we were together. its cause of my insecurities cause i cheated on her.

she said she has never cheated on me and never will. all of her friends assure me she isnt seeing anyone.