Im in no contact cause i did all the wrong things when we separated i cried, begged, pleaded, sent 100's of text a day and drove her friends crazy she eventually stopped talking to me or returning my text messages. Not contacting her is one of my 180 goals cause there is no reason to try to contact her right now cause she will not answer nor will she talk about anything but our child.
Have you thought of starting friendly contact with her that's short? Just one not 100s? Your overkill before probably scared her off. I don't think you have to adopt an all or nothing attitude. Contacting her once in a while may be okay. You have to start the communication somehow. Or let it stem from when you are talking about the kids. No one can talk about their kids and be emotionally out of it. Your kids are people not pieces of property.
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Update wife says that she is depressed and that she thinks I have changed but will not ever forget the old stuff I have done. She also said that the thinks we will go back into our old rut. Do know what else to do but give her space. Any suggestions
Did your wife tell you personally? How did this interaction go?
Very often women do not need more space, they need more togetherness, unless you have been clingy or pushy OR if you've been a jerk. So it really depends on how this last interaction went.
When you do have an interaction with her, make it fun for her. That can be irresistible.
No her best friend told me. I text her for a min last night and she started an argument so I stopped talking. She text me this morning says we were fighting all night last new years and that she swore to herself she wasn't doing it anymore
well we got into an argument last night. she say we have never been good for each other and there are to many years of pain and hurting each other. also said that there is a point when u have to let go and there is no point in going thru life making each other miserable. any suggestions
