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Son and i had a great time at my sisters. I took s and my nephew snowboarding on xmas and yesterday. It was great to be with my family to feel loved by people again. my nephew has a baby girl 9 mos that lives with my sister so that made xmas extra special too.

I'm glad you were able to find some joy and love, rysmom.

I did. thank you. My W and I spent it together.

Stop contacting him. Do you have an agreement on visitation concerning your son? Establish that. Right now things are too open. You need some kind of structure in place.

I'm glad your Xmas was great.

i text h yesterday and told him "s could be with him for new years eve because i have to take my nephew back home today and son has to stay home". h text back" i thought s was going to pa to snowboard?" i said "no because he has to write paper for school so im going alone". he text "You are a Great Mom, ryan appreciates everything you do for him". i text " you are a good dad. you always took good care of us. Thanks for your hard work", no response. I text " thanks for working hard for ry, I am looking for my own work".
Today is h bday and the day we met 32 yrs ago. I hope I ruined any plans h has with home wrecker today. This has been a difficult week for me. I went to a new psychologist last night. Its a man I dont know if i should go to a woman instead. Ive been waking up at 3 every morning and staying awake for 2 hrs. i know this is a sign of depression.

Doesn't hurt to try. You can always switch if you need to, but a man might even be a good idea. More in the individual person.

I really hope you get some more relief, rys. I'm really glad you were able to be in the presence of family and feel their love and care. How could you get that more often?


I do think it's a good idea to stop initiating a text with your H. Is that the kind of advice Laurie gave you?

I'm mostly concerned with you. If you didn't text him, I think it would be important for you to have something to focus on instead during the times you were going to text him. What could you do to change your focus?

I dont have much work right now which i know is not good, maybe i will advertise my business in the church bulletin, but its expensive. The classes at school don't start until jan 10. i know i should clean some clutter out of my house, h stuff is still in his dresser in my bedroom. i should put it in the garage. and i have important financial stuff i have to deal with but have put it off for way to long. i haven't been able to play tennis because of the weather in 2 mos, and have no other social outlet right now, which is not good. Sorry just ranting about what i should be doing.
Have a lot of people from here gone to another chat room of facebook? Hope you are doing well.

I am done. I called my son he went out w h and i told h not to bring my s to his house if ow was there. He had the nerve to bring my son and my nephew there and ow was there. I flipped out and went over to his house and picked them up. I am sick of being taken advantage of. I told him to get his shi-t out of my house Im done. I found out my s has lied to me to that ow has been there a few times he went there when she was there. h put him up to lying to me.

I'm sorry rys. It certainly isn't what it should be.

I think you are not going to be able to control whether this ow is around your son or not. I think your best bet if you want him back is to become the more attractive option. And if you are truly done, your best bet is to make life easier for your son.

What will you do tonight?

Rysmom - how old is your son?

How are you rys?