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I have the same dilemma, we were best friends before M, and I wanted for us to be BF during the time he had OW. This also for D11 sake. I will tell you though that it hurts when you have had a good time together and then in the next breath, he disappears so he could talk to OW (my H was a long distance EA, thank goodness).