Feeling mostly better. Still coughing but better! I've been singing and happy for the past couple days again.
My cooperating/partner teacher at preschool asked me if I took too much cold medicine today she thought I was loopy. I said nope, just happy. Gotta remember to accentuate the positive and find happiness with what we have instead of worrying about what we lack.
Oh, and I signed off/closed my refi today! I am officially the sole owner of my home--and the loan that comes with it.
Good for you! It is funny here, the county shows that the house is mine due to the divorce decree but he is still on the mortgage for a couple of reasons, the first being that he is still in bankruptcy so I can't even think about doing anything until his case his closed.
I really believe the more you detach the better you will feel, well besides your cold of course. happy for you.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I am feeling great, all coughing aside of course...
Not sure what it is, but I feel just content. But more than content, I don't know how to describe it. I am singing all the time, light hearted and joking, etc.
Actually, I just realized what it is. I am BBJ again. I don't know when it happened, but I got me back! Wow...
Only I am an older, wiser, more mature me. But with the playfulness and sassy spirit back. And I want to keep it that way!
I am more detached though I have my moments. I was even able to joke with Dan Monday night at basketball practice when he won a free throw contest for the parents. Then yesterday he texted asking what the spring break dates were. Immediately my mind went to "He and ow are getting married and he wants the kids there"... Yeah, I know that is jumping to conclusions. But after about two seconds, I thought "So what if they are? Not my business, not my problem." My only concern would be that the kids made the transition ok. I have found that imagining 'the worst' makes things more manageable...
But I really don't spend much time thinking about Dan. And I have to say that seems to bother him!
Just in a really, really good place and enjoying it.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Gotta remember to accentuate the positive and find happiness with what we have instead of worrying about what we lack.