No way, the advice given by the vets was spot on. As I did 10 yrs ago I was panicked when W #2 left. I was going to go back to old ways, begging pleading wishy washy. A couple weeks and plenty of 2x4's my self worth came back. I knew my W would wake up and see our relationship in a different way. I just had to back off and let it happen. And than when she did approach the door I dropped the D-bomb becuase she was having a short lived affair and I would not stand for it. It was hard but the guys here gave me the courage and stregth to pull it off. Keep plugging away RobX!
Those rules change.. I don't have the originals...
And there is a lot of gray area in those rules...
Somehow I don't think coach believes he's violated any of them either...
The fact that a post or an entire thread can be deleted without explanation because a policy says it's ok, doesn't make the removal morally legitimate... It just makes it bureaucratically expedient.
Rules are no substitute for good manners and apt judgement... And the exodus that's taking place sends a pretty clear message to me that it may be missing here...
I've seen some very heated debates. I've seen some blunt posters, and some debates that bordered on name calling, but between vets, not directed at the newcomers.
I definitely received a few 2X4s from desert_rat, kalni, NikB, PDT, etc etc etc. Well deserved and not bullying.
I never felt bullied as a newcomer, and I hope I don't make anyone else fee like I'm shoving my advice on them either.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Those rules change.. I don't have the originals...
And there is a lot of gray area in those rules...
Somehow I don't think coach believes he's violated any of them either...
The fact that a post or an entire thread can be deleted without explanation because a policy says it's ok, doesn't make the removal morally legitimate... It just makes it bureaucratically expedient.
Rules are no substitute for good manners and apt judgement... And the exodus that's taking place sends a pretty clear message to me that it may be missing here...
no offence starsky .. the four whistles is pdt's trademark. pls choose a different smiley. the four whistles is a reminder of the good ol' vet we lost.
no offence starsky .. the four whistles is pdt's trademark. pls choose a different smiley. the four whistles is a reminder of the good ol' vet we lost.
The reminder should be there so we all know what was truly lost.
(((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
