No, don't say anything about it, it will only cause a fight or awkward R talk and it'll blow your source of intelligence on her. But, if you keep spying, it will only do you no good in the long run. You will not be able to detach from her like you need to. I'm not at all saying my situation could have ended up any differently, but I do know that the spying backfired on me...I came to realize I was only doing it to indeed catch her in lies so I could "punish" her later.
I did post one time that I didn't have anything against spying whatsoever, but I was wrong. That said, I repeat, don't let her know you know about this text. Nothing good will come from it.
M-34 XW-32 D-7 Found OM's presence 4/09 Separated 12/09 Divorced 8/10 GREAT relationship as coparents since 8/10
I actually do not want to punish her later. i do want to know she is telling the truth. The OM spouse told me about the text anyway. The reported intent was to make contact to make final closure that he intends to stay with his wife. Spoke with her tonight after she said goodnight to the kids. She sounded angry again we had not spoken since bedtime yesterday. No R talk next to no talk essentially Hi and By.
H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10
Well an update I guess she is away and has only contacted us at bedtime. So far it doesn't give me the warm fuzzy feeling. So I can only imagine what is going through her head called her back after she said goodnight to kids because she had several messages she was very negative what a roller coaster. No contact yet today let's see how it goes.
H 37 WW 37 M 15 5 Children Bomb 9-27-10 W EA/Pa she filed 12-18-10
