Maybe since wii dumped himself he might give me a chance? just kidding!lol
Hey, you never know ...
Don't feel pressured to put yourself out there or like you NEED to meet someone. That is not healthy. Just live your life day to day. They say when you "aren't" looking is when you find someone...
This is what now-boyfriend sent me as a message. I liked it because it was casual, and non-pressuring. It referred to my profile but it was short and it was fishing to see if there was any interest on my part. His second email to me was more self-disclosing.
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Sounds like you're having a great summer, me too. We deserve it don't you think? You'll have to tell me about your close encounters of the furry kind. I too have a busy life but am able to juggle priorities in order to enjoy being curious.
[first initial of real name]
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
And many people feel that winks/smiles are intended more for women to indicate openness to messages. Guys should probably initiate things with a message. Seriously, what's the worst that can happen? If you can't handle a rejecting email or no response, you might not be ready to date 'cause I think rejection is part of the process.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Seriously, what's the worst that can happen? If you can't handle a rejecting email or no response, you might not be ready to date 'cause I think rejection is part of the process.
I sent out 9 emails and 6 winks in the last two days. I try to find women that I like the looks of and then I actually read their profiles! lol I don't just blast off 100 duplicate emails to see what comes back. I got another wink and an email from a 41 yo woman who looks great but I don't think we have much in common.
AND I got matched with my XW! Turns out we are a match made in heaven with a 93% match! lol
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
