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Going to really need to lean on some folks. Glad I found this site.

I dont intend to be a doormat. I intend to GAL.

Plan of action today, Enjoy my son and go tour a light house.

Go to dinner with an old friend. (wife calls it a Date. I do not accept that.)

Gucci,

I appreciate your comment on PH thread. You are correct. I have been leading with emotion. After yesterdays MC session everything is out, cards are played.

I am finished emoting. Really Really... could use your advice on avoiding Rope Burns. (didnt want to HJ PH thread).

I am actually asking for your advice and am ready to listen.

I don't understand what the problem is in terms of understanding.

"Wife, I understand that you do not love me the way a wife should love her husband. I get it. You are free to leave, but you can't stay here and chase other men because that is not right".

I should note... staying isn't an option for her anymore. Stress that. You are not trying to stop her from seeing this OM. You are asking her to leave.

This isn't about controlling her behavior. This is about not allowing her to abuse you in your own home.

Time,

I have mentioned all of that to her. Even the MC told her last night to stop crying victim. I told WAW I dont care to know any of the details and she is free to see OM.. I told her I give up. So I think she gets it. Now for the testing.. I am getting my life.