Good job Pin, I'm glad your staying in the house. Its the best thing you could have done under the circumstances. Like you I spew R talk and than I stop. So I started putting my wedding ring in my pants pocket and when I'm talking to her if I start to slip I grab it. She most likely thinks I'm playing with myself but whatever!!
Good job Pin, I'm glad your staying in the house. Its the best thing you could have done under the circumstances. Like you I spew R talk and than I stop. So I started putting my wedding ring in my pants pocket and when I'm talking to her if I start to slip I grab it. She most likely thinks I'm playing with myself but whatever!!
Pin glad you made the tough decision and staying in your house. What are your plans for giving her the space she needs and not discussing the R so she does not feel as though you are hovering over her?
Also, your new title rope burns reminds me of my days in wrestling where we had to climb ropes. Going up was not the problem, but if you came down too fast you would get rope burns...always at the inner thigh ouch!!!
I'm going to avoid R talks as much as possible. I will never initiate one. I'm not going to initiate jack sh#t anymore, just live my life. Do the things that are fun for me and my girls; while still giving my W the respect she deserves. I really have a lot of things to keep me busy and happy. If she wants a part of them fine. Not my worry. I've spent too much of my life either trying to make her happy, trying to please her, or worrying what she's thinking.
