OYS@, this is a link to my new thread in MLC. I know you saw my post from yesterday Starsky. I really appreciated the support from you and everyone else. Saw it when I got home and helped a lot. I was drained, but I did some good DBing on the whole family.
Still debating the when and how (but not if) of letting H know that I know. With D3 essentially confirming affair, I am in no shape to confront until I have more info and am better prepared.