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Re: No longer holding on to what I know is gone. NNP1965 #2088561 10/13/10 01:24 AM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 3,096 Illinois, United States C ClingingToHope Member
ClingingToHope Member C Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 3,096 Illinois, United States	Yes. That class just sucked. Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6

Re: No longer holding on to what I know is gone. ClingingToHope #2089269 10/14/10 02:42 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV N NNP1965 OP Member
OP NNP1965 Member N Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV	One Sunday evening a few weeks ago I was bored and lonely and made a profile on match dot com. There was one very attractive man that I winked at, but by morning I had talked myself into deleting my profile, 'cuz I know I am not ready to be dating... only when I logged on this guy had already sent me a message. Long story short we have been chatting for a couple of weeks, but a few things have bothered me from the beginning... now I am convinced I snagged a real life Nigerian scam artist! Doesn't it just figure the first interest I have shown a member of the opposite sex (other than my H) in 25 years and this is what I get Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011

Re: No longer holding on to what I know is gone. NNP1965 #2089371 10/14/10 05:15 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo Member
BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	That just stinks!!! Did he ask you to wire him money? Yuck, yuck. Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: No longer holding on to what I know is gone. BobbiJo #2089384 10/14/10 05:40 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV N NNP1965 OP Member
OP NNP1965 Member N Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV	no, but he asked if he could put me down as his next of kin! Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011

Re: No longer holding on to what I know is gone. NNP1965 #2094128 10/23/10 03:14 AM
Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 4,986 W WCW Member
WCW Member W Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 4,986	I don't have a lot of family, can I be your next of kin too? Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.

Re: No longer holding on to what I know is gone. WCW #2094257 10/23/10 05:00 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665 M Matilda2 Member
Matilda2 Member M Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665	The thought of dating is pretty scary still are far as I am concerned. I listen to my co-worker go through this process (via Match.com) and I wonder if I will ever want to date again.

Re: No longer holding on to what I know is gone. Matilda2 #2095117 10/25/10 04:44 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV N NNP1965 OP Member
OP NNP1965 Member N Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV	yeah I knew I really was not ready, but the experience did show me a couple of things. My intuition is good and I am not likely to fall for a line now matter how cute the guy is saying it Of course my neighbor is convinced that I just threw away a great opportunity to meet an attractive wealthy man... and maybe I did. But I am going to listen to that voice inside me from now on. Here's a little tidbit none of you all will be surprised about. H just spent 10 days in the area and never contacted the boys to let them know he was here until day 8! ...and then only spent about 2 hours total with them. nice huh? Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011

Re: No longer holding on to what I know is gone. NNP1965 #2095122 10/25/10 04:48 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo Member
BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	That is probably what bothers me the most...when their lack of character has negative consequences for our kids. Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: No longer holding on to what I know is gone. NNP1965 #2095164 10/25/10 05:35 PM
Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,945 B BeginningAgain Member
BeginningAgain Member B Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,945	Originally Posted By: NNP1965 Here's a little tidbit none of you all will be surprised about. H just spent 10 days in the area and never contacted the boys to let them know he was here until day 8! ...and then only spent about 2 hours total with them. nice huh? How sad!!! Sorry that your boys missed out on having more time with their dad. Your H has some really messed up priorities in life! BA

Re: No longer holding on to what I know is gone. BeginningAgain #2095544 10/26/10 11:15 AM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV N NNP1965 OP Member
OP NNP1965 Member N Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV	I have been contemplating changing my last name. At first I didn't want to consider it, because of my kids... but what if someday I remarry? I would change it then, so I am beginning to consider the possibility of doing so. I don't want to take my maiden name back however, so how does one go about choosing a new name? Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011

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