Originally Posted By: What's his face...via email...
You have two issues that are causing you mixed feelings on several levels.
Separate what is in front of you. Deal with it as it is meant to be.
What is the TRUE root of your anger ?
She may very well be a part of your children's lives for quite a while. Are they in danger with her ?
Everything else you are causing your own hurt here. I KNOW how hard this is, so don't dismiss my words please.
So they have fun....be happy that they do for now. At the end of that fun-filled fantasy land day, they come "home" to Mom and discuss things. You are their emotional rock. Would you rather have him talk to them about the why's of things ?
H, will have to own this down the road. So what, he is an Asshat, did you forget that ?
Those are his demons PEI....not yours.
When the sun sets, and they see you and her beside each other.....
They still will call you Mommy......regardless whether or not she is the BEST woman on the planet.
Nobody......can ever take that from you unless you give it away. ....................................................Balance.....................................................................
I get it buddy, I really do. I'm not blind to my fears and insecurities, check out my reply post to what E wrote yesterday. And yes, I'm actually very grateful that she's not Attilla the Hun or Medusa. Honestly. I know that the more people in this world who love and are kind to my kids the better off they will be. My biggest issue here is that I know my kids, my daughter in particular, and she needs TIME to deal with things. She can not rush through anything and feel comfortable at the other end. It's who she is and he is disrespecting her. That pisses me off. My middle son has expressed that he doesn't get any alone time with Daddy ... that too, pisses me off. And yes, I know that they are his relationships to fix or break, not mine ...
Buddy I'm not dismissing your words, never do, even if it seems that way. And yes, I know that you know, you really do.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
Thanks for dropping by. Haven't seen you in these parts before. MLC land is a crazy place ... never ceases to amaze me what little boys are made of ...
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
Thanks for dropping by. Haven't seen you in these parts before. MLC land is a crazy place ... never ceases to amaze me what little boys are made of ...
Peace PEI
Yeah, I think I took a wrong turn at the WAW Saloon, and just got interested in the landscape.
